I have come to accept that I just do not fit the bill someone has and yes he considers me a friend but nothing more and I have no choice but to accept that. We love each other but I tend to be the one that has been making all the effort.
When you are the one reaching out all the time and the other person doesn’t, there is no sense in meeting your head against a wall because nothing is going to change their feelings but themselves. I do not want anyone to change a thing for me so I accept it’s a one sided relationship.
Unfortunately we have reached the end of our road together and no we cannot be friends at this time because there isn’t enough respect in the relationship. I do not wish him ill, no I do hope he finds what makes him happy because I am not one to want harm and sadness for anyone.
I have no doubt he is in a relationship that will get better now that I have exited the picture because I feel I am to much of a distraction for him to concentrate on his current relationship. You have to be big enough to bow out when you may because others indecisiveness.
Taking myself out of the equation should bring him much happiness with his current relationship because he can focus on the current girl at hand. He doesn’t seem to be able to find his total happiness in one woman, which is a shame.
He has so much going for him and he is a good man and for all you ladies out there interested in a hell of a guy, let me know and I will pass it on to him. Just because things didn’t work out for me doesn’t mean it won’t for you.
It doesn’t change my situation to be mean and hateful and say negative things about him or anyone for that matter and as long as I keep positive and upbeat I am doing myself good as well as others. People that choose to say terrible things about someone they were involved with need to mature.