Relationship Lies

I wonder how a many people are in relationships because they get along with the person and they are somewhat happy in the relationship. Why do people stay in safe relationships instead of going after the person they really want to be with? Why do people sell themselves short like that?

I know someone that is doing that exact thing but I can do nothing about it and they seem to be content or at least semi content. There is no doubt a baby in the picture which we all know how kids affect a relationship, either good or bad and even controlling a manipulating at times.

I would never want to be in that position again, either get married or have the kid on my own. It was tough enough to make when I was thirty four and I of course, made the wrong choice. I wish I would have raised her on my own because I would have been so much happier than I was.

It doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how wealthy you are, no one is immune to being cheated on or dumped. I would think those would be the people who fall the hardest because they expect to get whatever they want or whomever. I do not think men forty-five and over should have children.

When men get about fifty five they want do to as they please and have their children raised. They want to enjoy kinky sex and traveling without the kids any longer. I can’t blame them either because raising kids is rewarding but so is it when they are gone as well. 

Commit The Fingers

I like running my fingers through soft long hair on men, I love long hair on men period. It feels so good to run your fingers slowly through someone’s hair, don’t ask me why it just does. I have had men that loved running their fingers through my hair because it is so thick and soft.

I love to snuggle and make out and run my fingers through a man’s hair all at once, it is so hot and I find it a turn on. Some people like long hair and some don’t but my preference has always been long hair on  guys. I find them to be so much more sexy and I find it to get me so excited.

I am trying to decide if I should cut my hair or continue to grow it long and I really can’t make up my mind. It is kind of a pain in the ass and it gets knotted in the back which is a real pain to comb out. It is easy to take care of though and that is why I like it so much. I hate curling and primping and I just like to brush and go.


Just A Moment

I wish for once in my life there would be something exciting happen, my life is so damn white bread and vanilla it isn’t funny. That is why I do silly stuff when the moment grabs me. No one ever does anything special for me and my birthday is Friday and my kids and I will do nothing again.

We are to broke to do anything and I wont make a big deal out of it because it’s nothing but another year on my carcass. I’m no worse for wear and tear and no there wasn’t a bunch of crows feet that made their claim to the side of my eyes. My boobs still sag but haven’t dropped further either.

My ass is as wide as it was before Friday so I am not to disappointed there. I have a few scars and I’m ok with those as well, along with the surgery hole scars I have. My hair is still a dirty dish water blonde that I get highlighted when I need a good lift. My eyes are still blue and I still pretend not to hear people who annoy me.

So in a nutshell, I need something over the top fun, something or someone to make me laugh, laugh until I pee myself and I just want to have a grand time for a change. So who is going to step up and make this happen? Nobody, as usual and I just have to live with it now won’t I?

The Winner Is……..

Today is election day and I can say that throwing both men in the air and see who lands first is the basic consensus of most of the population from what I have gathered. Politicians, o yes the great politician is a proverbial liar no matter who is running. I have no respect for either candidate and think they are both dweebs.

Trying to separate the truth from the lies is nothing easily done and Romney, well he is on the left and Obama is on the right so where does that leave me? In the middle of course because I do not care for either candidate and have no faith in either person because of their records.


I have been asked for weeks how I was going to vote and I vote the same way every year, I don’t vote left and I don’t vote right I vote to make a statement and nothing more. We have the dweeb that changes his stand on issues when it suits him and then we have Mr. promise who doesn’t keep any of them.

So whip me, beat me and make me pass bad checks, I will not be voting the way so many want me to vote so kiss my big one and vote the way you feel and do not let anyone tell you how to cast your vote. It is your right to exercise your voting rights, so get out and do it.

Not that you can expect world peace or the budget to be balanced but you can say you did vote and that is the important part of this entire gig. Frankly, I cannot remember a time when the people’s vote had anything to do with the election but make people think they really have a say.

Now don’t a wild hair up your giggy, this is just an unsolicited commentary from a retired steelmill worker and nothing more. I am not looking for arguments on how you feel or how I should have voted. Would of, should of, could of is all you here six months after an election anyway.