Do you know who you really are, I mean the person inside and how would you describe yourself? Be honest with yourself and write down a description of yourself, the real who in you. It is hard for us to be totally honest with ourselves as far as the type of person we really are. Who wants to admit to themselves that they are a true scumbag?
Like the jerk that ripped me off and once again court is involved because I have to take him to small claims court. I am thinking it would so much easier if I just threw a pillow case over his head and beat the shit out of him with a baseball bat ;). Hey I just roll that way and yes that is the ugly who in me.
I am a very kind, warm, loving, caring, empathetic, helpful, loving, intelligent, bitch, jealous occasionally, sarcastic, sensual, sexual, I hold on to negative emotions for to long like if I am mad at someone, I can be very stubborn, hateful, uncaring, cold, verbally abusive at times, emotional, gullible, naive,responsible, driven, funny,this is just a small portion of the who inside me. I read that list and I do not like the negative part of myself and every time I look at this list or rewrite a new one I work a little harder on eliminating the negative.
It is hard to be honest with yourself and to get rid of the part of yourself you do not like and it is a slap in the face when you accept the negative with the positive. I ended my self description on a positive note don’t you know, because I know the last thing a person hears or reads is what they tend to remember, so if you ever write a resume always leave yourself a real nice bonus by using this little trick.
When you are having a conversation with someone you should always leave the conversation with something positive said. I went through the grocery line the other day and I watched as the cashier was really being dumped on by a customer. I felt really bad for her when I got up there and I told her that was unneccessary and I could see she was embarrassed
She had the cutest haircut and it made her eyes really stick out. She was a pretty young lady and I told her “with her looks she was going to rule the male population and her haircut was just to damn cut”. She was so flattered and smiled and blushed and then thanked me.
How much did that cost? Not a damn penny but the worth it had for her was priceless and its little things like this that I do and it makes me feel good to see I have made someone feel good about themselves. Why do I do this? Quite simple, nobody ever did it for me and then one day someone did.
That made me feel so good about myself and I have received just as much as I have given. It’s little things like that, that make the world a good place once in a while and I am glad to partake in it. People really enjoy those moments when we feel good about ourselves and we feel accomplished.