Built Me Up


I have noticed that divorced men tend to date younger women because  a younger woman makes them feel younger, more attractive and vital. They enjoy showing off their much younger date as some sort of trophy or prize. What they do not realize is that the woman they are dating may be only interested in them for the financial security they can provide. How many 25 year old women are really attracted to a 45 year old man who is old enough to be their father? Men should stop kidding themselves and face the truth. 

They do not need a younger woman to feel youthful. Relying on anyone outside yourself to feel attractive, young, or needed is a mistake. Instead these men need to rediscover the women in their own age group and appreciate them for their wisdom and maturity. Many middle aged men do not even fully understand what they are getting themselves into with a younger woman. She will probably want to start a family at some point and is at a completely different stage in her life. A more mature woman, finished with child bearing and raising, can provide companionship and will be more likely to share more common interests with a man her own age.

Impressing a younger woman is always so much easier as well because their expectations are so much lower than an older woman’s. Older men must really protect themselves because if they are financially well off they are looked upon as a great catch and if the woman is younger and in her child bearing years she can and will use her body as a way to catch a man by getting pregnant. A smart man always wears a condom and flushes it, does not throw it in the trash because she can take that semen and impregnate herself.

This is how many second marriage come about, entrapment and no they do not last because the maturity level is quite different and the man tends to get tired of the immature woman and she gets tired of his “old age ways”. Young women want to go out a lot and the older male tends to enjoy his home space so much more. The woman has nothing to lose by getting divorced because she will get child support as well as spousal support and she is basically set financially until she meets another man and marries again.

A secure woman will not marry a man who has been married twice prior to her because it screams instability to her, he cannot keep a relationship together for some reason that she will never really know. When people have more than a ten year span in age there becomes many problems to deal with and when the man is the older one he tends to even get tired of the sex after about 4-6 months. A younger women tends to play more mind games as well because they want to control the relationship and steer it into marriage.



In my opinion the most delicious feeling in the world is an orgasm, the kind of orgasm that literally takes away your breath, makes your toes curl and you get slightly dizzy from. I haven’t had an orgasm like that in so long that I have forgotten how wonderful the feeling is. When you feel like that the person you are with really cares about you and your pleasure but most people do not take the time to pleasure each other in such a way. Sex has become so damn quick and kissing isn’t kissing any longer.

I love to kiss, the kind of kisses that are slow, deep and romantic, the kind of kisses you can feel all the way to your groin as you touch the person’s face, neck and chest. Kissing is an art that most people do not possess and that is a real shame. I think the older you get the more you appreciate long romantic kisses and spending time together and it’s no longer about going to parties and going out all of the time. I love to hold hands and it doesn’t matter if I am walking or sitting with that person.

I like to be affectionate at the right times of course and no I do not like to make out in public or be to affectionate as it draws unwanted attention. Romance is for the type of person that enjoys experiencing the physical part of love and no a quick feel of the cock and a quick fuck isn’t for this woman. When making love you should experience every part of the body and you should enjoy giving pleasure to the person you are with. You should be able to make them so relaxed yet so excited that it drives them crazy.