akai ito or unmei no akai ito

Hey sweetie, How long you going to keep playing mind games with yourself? Let your guard down just a bit and I will attempt to do the same. I am scared that you have no intention of having anything more than a fuck buddy relationship, which may only last one time. 

If you have no intention of the possibility of a relationship eventually between us then let’s just close the door and walk now. I want a relationship with someone that respects me as much as I respect them and not fuck around.

If that isnt the course you want your life to go down eventually then there is really nothing left to be said. Im a rare woman indeed and without trying to sound narcisistic you will never meet anyone that makes you feel the way I do. 



Why do you keep second guessing yourself? What are you afraid of, my rejection or my acceptance of you? You can keep reading my blog and listening to my podcasts but it will never get you any closer into my world. Wow, you really are quite insecure arent you? Or are you afraid that you might hurt me, unintentionally of course. Im a big girl and I can handle rejection my dear.

The one that denies akai ito or unmei no akai ito is denying happiness and if you continue to do so you shall never be happy now do you relly want to live yourlife that way??? Why do you deny yourself what is destined to be????

translated means the red string of fate is an East Asian belief originating from Chinese legend and is also used in Japanese legend. According to this myth, the gods tie a red cord around the ankles of those that are to meet one another in a certain situation or help each other in a certain way. Often, in Japanese culture, it is thought to be tied around the little finger. According to Chinese legend, the deity in charge of “the red thread” is believed to be Yuè Xià Lǎo, the old lunar matchmaker god who is also in charge of marriages. The two people connected by the red thread are destined lovers, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. This magical cord may stretch or tangle, but never break. This myth is similar to the Western concept of soulmates or a destined flame.  


What keeps us from letting the red string of fate work for us? We let our fears and disappointment control us and we refuse to let fate work in our favor. There are people who are destined to be together regardless of the circumstances or distance, they eventually come together because they are meant to be together and not even they can deny what is in their hearts. It’s funny how people meet in the most unsuspecting places and how the connection is so strong they can never walk away from each other.

These individuals play and fight like children as they get so mad and walk away only to have the winds of change turn them around. They laugh at their sillyness and arguments and they do not view any disagreements as permanent breakers of the relationship. They tease each and make fun of each other but both know that what they have is to deep to be extracted even if they do date other people. They may skip through life with other people but those relationships never last because the pull of the red string is to strong for them to ignore.

They may attempt to deny their feelings and they may attempt to justify pushing the person away because they may be flawed in some way but they can never walk away even though they may try. When you meet the person that is at the other end of the red cord you just know it even though some chose to fight it out of fear. Fear of rejection, deception, pain that lingers from a lost relationship, these individuals refuse to believe what is before them because they have been so hurt and disappointed in the past.

Once these two individuals are together they cannot believe what a stroke of luck they have for meeting each other finally, the true love of their lives, the one they have been waiting for. They finally are able to put all the hurt behind them and move forward in their lives and they grow together as one. You cannot force this type of love and you cannot find it in just anyone as these two individuals will be together regardless of any road blocks and when they touch, the touch is electric like nothing they have ever felt or experienced.


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