A man looks for several things in a woman depending on his goal at that moment. Men like sex and cannot live without it but they do not look for sex when looking for a wife. When men are looking for a girlfriend they are looking for a good time type of girl. Someone that gives them sex and is entertaining but when looking for a wife, well that is a different story all together.
Men need their ego’s inflated but not with false inflation, no they want and need the truth but they also need someone who will push them to be there very best. Girlfriends generally do not look past the sex and free meals as well as gifts. A woman who wants to be a wife will look past all that crap and look into your very soul. She will want for you to be happy and content and to challenge yourself.
In today’s world women are still looking to get married and they are looking first in the purse so to speak. Women will have sex with several men at the same time as she dates several men looking for that marriage partner. Women in today’s world lack morals and ethics as do men and yes they will fuck one man in the morning and have dinner with another that evening.
If a woman doesn’t get a committment from a man within the first six months of the relationship you can bet your bottom dollar that you are not getting her all, in fact she is sharing her all with several other men and she will always make time for the man that she can get the most from. There are so few women that will not jump into bed with a man on the first date or even the second and that type of woman is hard and rare to find.
If you find a woman who respects herself enough to keep her pants on for the few days or longer than you have a keeper and you better snatch her up because those type of women are extremely rare in this day and age. Men actually tend to date only one women at a time when they get past the player stage of their lives but women, well women will use her body at every turn and she will fuck just about anybody that feeds her a free meal.
I realize I do not fall into the average woman category and maybe it’s because I was raised in a different time and place and maybe it’s because I do believe so strongly in God and I do have ethics and morals. It’s not that I am a frigid woman, o no by far I am not frigid but I respect myself enough to want to be more than someone’s convenient fuck and yes women know when they are just that.
Women will continue to see a guy if he is a good time and giving her things and yes she will fuck him to keep her pockets padded or to experience a lifestyle way above and beyond her own. This type of woman is waiting in vain for that ring on her finger and this type of woman lacks what a man wants in a permanent partner but she is so ignorant she doesn’t quite get it and thinks she is making progress when she is nothing but a cheap fuck.
Men will enjoy this type of woman until he tires of her and he will because she doesn’t offer him the things he wants most from a woman. These type of women are a good time and nothing more, not at all the type of woman a man wants to spend his life with. Women are basically shallow and they play so many games in hopes of roping in a man and dragging him down the aisle, but what really happens is he tires of her and he finally walks away for good in hopes of finding that one woman he truly wants to spend the rest of his life with and yes that is what a man is looking for, permanency.