The Mind Gamer

People play mind games with each other for various reasons but a man will  do this because he is  emotionally insecure would definitely play mind games with that woman that he’s wooing. He’s not exactly sure what he’s actually feeling so while he’s assessing himself, he would rather play mind games first. Rather than allow the woman to see his emotional insecurity, he deems it best to puzzle her.

It’s also a form of control, the one thing they can control when they have little or no control over their own lives. Men that play these kind of games think they are intriguing and mysterious when the fact is they are become boring and the woman will look elsewhere for companionship. I do not enjoy mind games and do not play them and no longer participate with someone who enjoyed playing with me.

I finally found a man who doesn’t play mind games and wants to be with me and enjoys my company. I no longer seek a relationship with someone who I once was very attracted to because he has made himself elusive and obviously is to insecure to meet me so I have moved on. I now have real arms around me, real kisses and kind words and I now have a man who I never in a million years thought would take a second look at me.

Yes, he is wealthy but that doesnt make me attracted to him and yes he has tried to spend large amounts of money on me only to be turned down. He hasn’t pushed sex on me and has accepted the fact that I will have sex when I am ready and not before. He has asked me to be his travel partner as he travels quite frequently and he also realizes I have a minor child that I am responsible for and he has made every effort to spend time with me on my terms.

He flys in when he can and we spend time just laughing and having a great time and I have had him over for dinner. He really appreciated a home cooked meal and my plate of cookies and yes I baked cookies and shit because I am finally happy. He so loved my deserts that he wants me to open a business but that would be to time consuming and I wouldn’t have time for him.

He was surprised when he saw my bedroom which has nothing in it other than a mattress on a steel frame and my  sauna and he wanted to buy me a new bedroom set but I said no. I do not want to buy a new set until I move because I do not want more furniture than I need. He wants to give me the world but I do not want it and that frustrates him as he is used to buying things for the women that have been in his life.

 He’s coming in later tonight and we will just hang out at his hotel because I don’t want him meeting my kids as of yet. I believe in protecting my children as much as possible and even though I really like Francisco it is just to early to introduce him to my kids. They know I am dating someone but that is all they know until I am ready to tell them more or let them meet him.

He doesn’t play mind games because he is a very secure man who doesn’t need to control every aspect of his life and he as well as I are allowing things to fall as they may, without the games. It is so refreshing to date someone who knows what they want out of life and they know who and what they are and they appreciate those around them and in their lives.

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