Do you ever wonder where the love is that you do not have in your life? Do you ever wonder why you have no one to love in your life? Do you ever wonder when the absence of love will re-enter your life? These are things I wonder about and I have no answers for the questions and I have no idea when this will change for me. I’m pretty much a homebody and I do not go out much so that in itself is a problem.
I find that I do not enjoy going to bars and most of the day I spend on the computer, cleaning, cooking or exercising. I have lost some weight but not enough to please myself as of yet. I keep myself cocooned because I fear the dating scene and I fear the loss of my heart and getting hurt because I feel things to deeply and I am such an emotional person. Those that know me know I am a damn good person and my friends are lifers with me because I treat them very well.
I am sitting here and all of a sudden Christmas enters my mind, another lonely Christmas and no money to buy the kids anything this year. Its so damn hard trying to make ends meet lately and my son seems to have gotten himself involved in some shit which lead him to steal money from me. I never have much money but the little I have is so important but my son well he’s into more shit again.
What really pisses me off is my son has put myself and my daughter in possible danger and I wouldn’t be surprised to find flat tires or broken windshields on our cars. My son just doesn’t think about the consequences of his actions and now I have to figure out how to protect my family. Ryan got involved with some high school kids that says Ryan owes him for weed.
Ryan stole money from me to pay off this kid but this kid wants more money which is pissing me off. Ryan has been letting this kid use my basement to party when I am sleeping and now Ryan has this grand plan to rip this kid off and set him up to get busted. Ryan is planning to steal all the money this kid carries around in his car and when the kid passes out he plans on doing his deed.
Ryan makes me so upset and I just sit and cry out of frustration because I do not know how to handle him or what to do to make him realize he has to think of others because his actions affect all of us in this house. As much as I want to be in a relationship, my family will always come first and that is just the way it is because my kids have no one but me and I am always there for them.