There are times in our lives that we meet people and we try to make a relationship work out but it just doesn’t but we hang on regardless hoping that things will work out. It’s relationships like this that we must discard so we can find a healthy and happy relationship that is beneficial to both parties.
I have hung onto a dream, a hope, a relationship that could have been quite exciting but it takes two people who are honest, faithful and respect each other and this is not what I have been involved in. I have FINALLY walked away from the relationship that went nowhere because instead of making me happy, the relationship made me very unhappy.
You can give until it hurts and when you get nothing back you have to cut your losses and move on. It isn’t easy to let go but if I didn’t then I would be allowing myself to be sucked into the abyss of unhappiness for who knows how long to come. I have turned my back and cut my losses and cut off all ties with this individual.
I do not wish ill upon him, I just wish he would forget about me because I will no longer allow him to manipulate and control me any longer. Why did I stay so long? Simple, loneliness and needing a connection with another person that I thought would one day show himself but I was wrong and so I have let go.