Are you one to believe that your soulmate will show up in your life at the exact moment you really need them? Do you honestly think your soulmate will open the doors of your destiny or change your life in a split second? Are you one of those people who are waiting for that moment of clarity and perfection of life?
It amazes me that people think their soul mate is going to show up in their life at this predestined time and be this flawless person. A true soul mate is a mirror of yourself, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. Sure, they have a common upbringing, similar interests but they have the one thing you don’t have which is the introspection to help you become great. What use is a soul mate if they can’t help free you from yourself so you can live your life mission?
Your soulmate shows you the path that you have been unable to see with your own eyes and your soulmate guides you to your destiny and your true mission in life. You have got to be ready for this type of person and you must open yourself up to change and growth without being so fearful that you avoid meeting your mate.
As long as you stand behind fear and run from what your heart knows is the truth of your life you will never be with your soulmate and hence shall never experience your true life mission. You shall always have an empty heart and empty hearth because it is what you have chosen to accept or to deny which is what will forever change your life.