You can learn a lot about someone by spending time with them but if you really want to know more about them then spend a week together. When two people spend a week on vacation you learn so many things about them, their habits good and bad, how clean and tidy they are, how flexible or rigid.
It’s so important to know these things about a person because it’s the little things that drive us crazy about someone else. Spending a weekend together is usually nothing but a good time and sex. We don’t pay much attention to much more than that during those several days.
You can never learn enough about someone in a few days several times a month but people find themselves in such a state of euphoria that they don’t look closer at the person. It’s so easy to have a good time and to get laid and sometimes we think we are falling for that person.
We do not fall for the person but we do fall for the abundance of sex and good times and that is when we for go good judgement. In this day and age if you date a woman six months she begins to push you in the direction of marriage and six months just is not enough time especially when it’s mostly weekends spent together.
When a woman doesn’t hear anything as far as an engagement more likely than not she begins to look elsewhere and yes you are none the wiser. The days you are not with her she will be with someone else and eventually leave you in the dust and move on.
Marriage can be good, hell it can be great but it scares the hell out of me to think about getting married again. I just cannot take cheaters and liars and that seems to be the way most men are these days. I will eventually meet the man that fits the bill for me and he will be forth right and truthful as well as honest.