Dumped

There are so many different ways for a man to dump a woman and men always tend to use cliche’s like “it isn’t you it’s me” or ” I need to work on myself” then there’s the line ” I am so jealous of the guy that marries you”, now that my friend is the ultimate dump so when you hear that line go to the store and stock up on hagen daz because you my dear have been dumped.Women tend to eat when they get dumped and ice cream is one thing we tend to eat when our hearts are broken.

I have listened to my friends after they have been dumped and some of them are blind as bats as they refuse to accept that they have been dumped. When he says “I need time by myself” honey you have been dumped and get your foot out of your own ass and wake the fuck up. No, he isn’t going to call and no don’t bother sending him flowers and for God’s sake do not take it upon yourself that you were the problem because you were not. Men on the other hand take it even more personal when a girl dumps them.

When she says “I have to really concentrate on my job” or “I have to care for my elderly grandmother” well dude you have been dumped as they leave no room for you  to be in their life. Guys begin to wonder if there dick is to small or their balls are to hairy, they begin to wonder if they have bad breath or they don’t know how to eat pussy to her pleasing. Guys take shit so much more personal and to heart because guys are taught not to  show their emotions.

Men make the mistake of buying a lady flowers or candy one time and never again, wtf are you guys thinking? It’s like sucking dick, if you suck it once and stop well that tells a guy that you are desperate and just wanted him and what he could give you. Once you suck dick you must continue to suck dick and you need to step up your game from there. I figure it this way, if I suck your dick then you damn well better go down on me and make me scream like a big dog or you can look elsewhere for your pussy!

So Difficult

Dating has become so damn difficult and women tend to analyze every single move a guy  makes. Women wonder why he hasn’t called her since their last date and she will obsess over it wondering if she should call him. Women also think that fucking a guy will guarantee that he calls her and asks her out again, this again is pure bullshit with the woman lieing to herself. Some women will start to hang out at the guys favorite nite spot and some will actually stalk the guy.

Dating is all so fucked up these days as men are looking for a piece of ass for the evening not a lifetime mate and women are looking for a life time mate and not a one night stand. There are women out there that just want to fuck a guy and set him off to sail never bothering to take his calls again. Some women will have a quick fuck for lunch and then another for dinner and think nothing of it and the woman who thinks that the guy she is seeing is cheating on her more likely than not is the one doing the cheating.

Women are to damn quick to try to nail a guy into a relationship and men are to quick to get fucked and keep coming back just for that and that alone. You can tell when someone is interested in you and want more than a fuck and you can tell when someone is dating others, all you have to do is pay attention and the answers you seek will come to you. People never want you to know the negative about them but that is exactly what we need to know about others to build a great relationship.

No Turning Back

It’s been three very long years since my husband passed and it’s time for me to put aside the anniversary dates of our marriage, his death, the date when he had his leg amputated and all of the other dates that are constant reminders of our life together. It’s not easy putting someone who was a huge part of your life aside as if they never existed because we do not forget those people or want they brought to our lives. It doesn’t matter if it is through death or divorce or separation they are no longer part of our lives.

I think of the last month of his life and how feeding him, changing his diaper, bathing him ect. was part of every day life and no I wasn’t disgusted or grossed out as taking care of him is what I signed on for and I would hoe that if I were dieing that my mate would care for me in the same way. When you split up with that special person you start to realize what is really important in life and you put your life into a new perspective because losing that special one is losing part of ourselves.

The kids haven’t mentioned that today is the three year anniversary of the death of their dad but I know my daughter knows and possibly my son. I havent said anything as I have focused on getting things done around the house as we have a showing in less than a hour. I have a spice cake in the oven because a house that smells of baked goods always helps sell the house and I made chocolate chip cookies but put the in the freezer for another showing.

Wouldn’t it be something if we sold the house today? That would be so awesome but I am not holding my breath but anything is possible now isn’t it? I refuse to take less than what I have the house listed for because we have so much money in this house but I have listed it for an amount that I can walk away from this house with without feeling screwed. I make the final decisions and that works for me because I used to listen to my husband but he always steered me wrong and now its up to me to steer myself