1. It’s something inside. Describing how a soul mate makes you feel is difficult. It’s a tenacious, profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.

2. Flashbacks. If your partner is your soul mate, chances are he or she has been present in your past lives. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.

3. You just get each other. Ever met two people who finish each others sentences? Some people call that spending too much time together, but I call it a soul mate connection. You might experience this with your best friend or your mother, but it is the telltale sign of a soul mate when you experience it with your partner.

4. You fall in love with his (or her) flaws. No relationship is perfect, and even soul mate relationships will experience ups and downs. Still, that bond will be much harder to break. Soul mates have an easier time of accepting, even learning to love, each others imperfections.

5. It’s intense. A soul mate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. The most important thing is that, even during negative episodes, you’re focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.

6. You two against the world. Soul mates often see their relationship as “us against the world.” They feel so linked together that they’re ready and willing to take on any feat of life, so long as they have their soul mate by their side.

7. You’re mentally inseparable. Soul mates often have a mental connection similar to twins. They might pick up the phone to call each other at the exact same time. Though life may keep you apart at times, your minds will always be in tune if you are soul mates.

8. You feel secure and protected. Regardless of the gender of your partner, he or she should always make you feel secure and protected. Your soul mate will make you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side. A person who plays on your insecurities, whether consciously or subconsciously, is not your soul mate.

9. You can’t imagine your life without him (or her). A soul mate is not someone you can walk away from that easily. It is someone you can’t imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with and fighting for.

10. You look each other in the eye. Soul mates have a tendency to look into each others eyes when speaking more often than ordinary couples. It comes naturally from the deep-seated connection between them. Looking a person in the eye when speaking denotes a high level of comfort and confidence.

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Just Do It

I think confidence is sexy and when a man just goes for it it shows his confidence. Real men do not wait for the right time they make the time right and they do what they have to to get what they want out of life. I have learned waiting for something good to happen is like waiting for a diamond to fall in your lap so I have always set my fears aside and forged ahead.

We tend to let our worries and fears lead us but sometimes you just know you have to try for the very thing you really want. Everyone nows life holds no guarantees but we also know that if we do not try we will never succeed. You may have done or set some not so smart things that you fear will pop up and make you feel foolish but that is always a chance you have to take.

If you have no malice in your heart you will find that you succeed more often than not. No man is an island and no one should ever live their life in fear or doubt. A man who wants a specific woman has got to show her he really wants her or she will look elsewhere for the attention and affection that she needs. Love, real love is rare but when you have affection for someone and you show it and they are drawn to you, you will find your dreams fulfilled and your heart over flowing with everything you have ever wanted emotionally so just do it and go for it.