Many of us live in denial as we deny that we are no hero, that we are being lied to, cheated on, deceit is going on in our lives. Denial keeps us from the very things we need most and some people deny that they have feelings for another person. We try to ignore those feelings but we keep thinking about that special person, we dream about them, we look at their pictures and read everything they write.
What we fail to realize is life repeats itself over and over and that includes loving someone. It’s hard to ignore feelings of the heart and it’s even harder when we are involved with someone else. We do not want to accept what our hearts already know and we do not want to be the “bad guy” in ending a relationship that we have been so devoted to for so long. As the heart grows fonder for someone new we tend to find fault with our current relationship because we are looking for a way out.
When we deny our feelings resentment grows and when that happens fault is always found in our partner. So many feel guilty that they feel something for someone else and they try to deny it but the heart continues to grow fonder day after day. We wonder what life would be like with that new person and we wonder if things would work out for the best because we want love and need love in our lives.
It is a strong person that follows their heart and it is so very hard to hurt the very person we were once in love with but we need to end that relationship for both people involved. We come to the point in our lives that we can no longer deny what we feel and we finally go for it. Once we take that first step everything else falls right into place and our life is finally fulfilled once again.