One of the hardest things in life is to succumb to our feelings because to do so is to let ourselves be controlled by those feelings. There are times when we just cannot deny what we feel for another and those feelings begin to drag us down into the abyss. We try so hard to keep in the driver’s seat but emotions, well emotions take over and we become our own prisoner.
The easiest way to get over someone is to replace them with someone else and yes you are technically using another person. Then what happens? We either fall for that person or we use them as a “filler” in our lives so we can move on to greener pastures. There are people who belong together but one of them isn’t sure of where they are at in life and they are so very lost in their own world.
There are times that we need to walk the water’s edge and skip a stone so we can find ourselves and do what our heart tells us is right. We can over think a situation and we can talk ourselves out of the very thing we are to strive for. If your heart is telling you one thing and your mind is telling you another then sit in silence and get in touch with your spiritual side and the correct path with be shown to you.