We Want

Women generally to look for a man like their father and men do the same with their mothers. Men tend to prefer self reliant and confident women even if their mother wasn’t that way. Self confidence is a turn on because many do not have it.

I am self confidant because I have had to be and I am self reliant and want no one to take care of me. It’s nice to know that you have someone who will but to rely on them is to put yourself under another’s control, no thank you.

People have lost sight of what marriage is really about and to many give up and get divorced. I was separated for two years and we got back together, not out of love but more out of need. We needed each other and he really needed me.

I would never leave a relationship for another man because I think that ending the current relationship is hard enough without adding another to the mix, but that is just me.I think when you break up you should date people before you decide to settle with one.

It is said the second time around is the sweetest and I want to be damn sure before I m to anyone. I like to move slow in relationships because I want that relationship to have the best start as possible and I want to enjoy the person and learning about them.

I have never needed a man to feel whole but it is nice to have someone you can share ideas with and talk to about your troubles. I do not want someone to fix my shit, no I can do that but it is nice to have someone you trust that you can get feedback from.

Long Distance

Long distant relationships take special people to make it work, that’s basically the only type of relationship I would feel comfortable with. I really don’t want someone coming over all the time as I have my son and this is our home and I am a very private person.

Being with someone 2-3 times a month would work for me just fine as long as we had other forms of communication. Sometimes, when you are just getting back into the dating scene, a long-term relationship works fine and for me it would be perfect. I cannot go anywhere until my son graduates and I will not uproot him.

I don’t think I would want to see anyone more than several times a month at this point in my life. I want to get to know someone slowly and that would be the best way for me. Long distant relationships show the real person in many ways, how they deal with anticipation, frustration, anger, resentment all these emotions come out over time.

I do not want to get married but would if it would help my husband out, I would do what I had to help him out with what little I have to offer. Sometimes people have long distant relationships because they are convenient for them or they fulfill the needs and sometimes they happen because there is no way the relationship could work any other way at that time.

If your love can withstand a long distant relationship and all the restraints on it, then you know you have something special, something long-lasting and something that will last a lifetime. I want a lifetime with someone, the man of my dreams, the man who holds my heart but I doubt it will ever happen and that hurts.