Psychology

I have always been interested in the psychology of the mind, may it be of human or animal as I get great enjoyment out of studying people and animals and the way they respond to life. People can be so predictable and when you watch enough people you will find that they react in the same way to the same thing, that is generally speaking. When you watch people and animals you discover so much about yourself that you never knew.

Animals respond to food, affection and attention in positive and loving ways as they give as much as they get if not more. People react differently to love, affection and attention and like animals when a person has been hurt they shy away from love because love and pain coincide and animals think the same way. Praise is another thing that both people and animals respond to and the more you praise the more praise is wanted.

You can always tell when an animal has been abused because they shy away from anyone that tries to show them affection and attention. People on the other hand react differently as they put up walls and push the person away. Those that have been hurt dance around love because it is so wanted but attached to it is the pain that comes from previous rejection and lack of attention.

It’s very difficult for both animal and man to move past getting hurt but with the right methods both species can be provoked to come around and let someone love them again. Rejection for both species is painful but both species want to love again, want to care again and want to be part of the bigger picture. I adore my pets and lavish them with love and affection and it shows as I enter my home and they come running to me.

Some people are not capable of showing true love and affection but that doesn’t mean they are without emotion and desire to feel love towards them. My dad was that kind of person as was my husband so I learned to live without love and affection that I so badly needed. I realize why both men where incapable of showing emotion because both were raised without it and that is where we learn, our childhood.

Psychology

I have always been interested in the psychology of the mind, may it be of human or animal as I get great enjoyment out of studying people and animals and the way they respond to life. People can be so predictable and when you watch enough people you will find that they react in the same way to the same thing, that is generally speaking. When you watch people and animals you discover so much about yourself that you never knew.

Animals respond to food, affection and attention in positive and loving ways as they give as much as they get if not more. People react differently to love, affection and attention and like animals when a person has been hurt they shy away from love because love and pain coincide and animals think the same way. Praise is another thing that both people and animals respond to and the more you praise the more praise is wanted.

You can always tell when an animal has been abused because they shy away from anyone that tries to show them affection and attention. People on the other hand react differently as they put up walls and push the person away. Those that have been hurt dance around love because it is so wanted but attached to it is the pain that comes from previous rejection and lack of attention.

It’s very difficult for both animal and man to move past getting hurt but with the right methods both species can be provoked to come around and let someone love them again. Rejection for both species is painful but both species want to love again, want to care again and want to be part of the bigger picture. I adore my pets and lavish them with love and affection and it shows as I enter my home and they come running to me.

Some people are not capable of showing true love and affection but that doesn’t mean they are without emotion and desire to feel love towards them. My dad was that kind of person as was my husband so I learned to live without love and affection that I so badly needed. I realize why both men where incapable of showing emotion because both were raised without it and that is where we learn, our childhood.

Up & Give

Our biggest obstacle in life is ourselves and the lack of self-esteem. We do not think we can accomplish our goals and the we have those that smash our dreams. You can be anything or do anything you wish to as long as you believe and believing is the hardest part. All we need is faith in ourselves and others.

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We had a very difficult time teaching my husband to walk with his prosthetic but he did it. He not only walked he could run and it was wonderful to see him walk and run like he used to. The loss of his leg destroyed a part of him and I could never even to begin to understand his pain but I tried.

When you feel like a failure and you feel like you cannot accomplish your goal, look back on this post and say out loud I CAN DO IT, I WILL DO IT.

Blue Bro’s


If you can remember the blues brothers then you surely saw “Animal House”. That movie covered every no no there was, nudity, racism and so on but it was a great movie. I still miss the “man” speed balling is a terrible way to die but he chose it and we no longer have his great comedic personality.

 

Only The Guilty

Are you cheating on your spouse, lover or significant other? Do you  have any idea how much you will destroy them when they find out? Maybe you are not cheating but you may be lieing to them regularly as he is with me.

He thinks I do not know or is it we choose to ignore that I know, no he continues to lie to me when I call him out on another lie. He won’t show up tomorrow, no he will just hand me another lie as why  he can’t be with me.

I do not know why he even bothers to lie as I already know there is no us, never was and never will be so why does he keep saying we will be together? It’s not like he has to lie to me because I wouldn’t know if it was the truth or a lie.

He gets nothing from me and never will again so maybe this is his sick idea of making me feel good. I don’t know what he is up to but it’s not going to be having dinner with me tomorrow, that I can bet one.

The Happy Side

I can honestly say I am not unhappy but I am not happy and I just go through each day as it melts into the next. I think most people live life that way and I surely know that  way to many marriages and relationships are like that. I was in a marriage like that so I can back up what I say.

I do not believe life is meant to be that way for me, no I believe my life will be exactly happy. I know it will happen one day but damn that day is taking a hell of a long time to get here. I know what it will take to get there and that is sharing my life with someone who can understand me.

I am very simple to understand but people look at me and get so confused by my different sides that they cannot even begin to grasp the real me. I am like that algebra problem I could never solve, I looked at it and got overwhelmed, but then I stepped back and looked at the problem piece by piece.

That is the way you have to look at people, many different things make up a person’s makeup and you have to break down the personality in that fashion. I know someone who was raised on a farm and understands the importance of the land yet he is wealthy and also appreciates the finer things.

I just want to be happy with someone else and watch the grass grow, I just want a simple life that is quiet and enjoyable. I just want to watch the moon and the stars slowly kissing the one that I love. Is that asking to much? Am I wanting just to much for myself and another?

Throw You Away

Here it is another day

I have tried to throw

You away

But for some reason

I want you to stay

Even though you 

Hurt me day after day

You say you love me

So make me see

Is it you or

Is it we?

Do you feel for me

Or am I fooling myself

I think I finally see

I am a fool

That you rule

Ripping out my heart

Not making me part

Of your life

Or your dream

Is this the way it 

Really is or the 

Way it may seem?