Two Souls

Are you one to believe that your soulmate will show up in your life at the exact moment you really need them? Do you honestly think your soulmate will open the doors of your destiny or change your life in a split second? Are you one of those people who are waiting for that moment of clarity and perfection of life?

It amazes me that people think their soul mate is going to show up in their life at this predestined time and be this flawless person. A true soul mate is a mirror of yourself, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. Sure, they have a common upbringing, similar interests but they have the one thing you don’t have which is the introspection to help you become great. What use is a soul mate if they can’t help free you from yourself so you can live your life mission?

Your soulmate shows you the path that you have been unable to see with your own eyes and your soulmate guides you to your destiny and your true mission in life. You have got to be ready for this type of person and you must open yourself up to change and growth without being so fearful that you avoid meeting your mate.

As long as you stand behind fear and run from what your heart knows is the truth of your life you will never be with your soulmate and hence shall never experience your true life mission. You shall always have an empty heart and empty hearth because it is what you have chosen to accept or to deny which is what will forever change your life.

Cut Losses

When you love someone, really love them and you feel like they are your soul mate, no you know they are your soul mate but they don’t seem to think so when do you cut your losses and move on?

Do you wait for them to come to you or do you walk and not look back? How do you know when it is time to say so long? How does your heart learn to let go and open up for someone else?

I am so lost and confused when it comes to this part of my life that my head is spinning. He is with another woman I am sure and I feel like a complete idiot hanging on to thin air. So how do I make that final decision to wait or to go?

He reads my blogs practically the second I post and I do not understand why. Is he so conceited he must know what I write, hoping I am writing something juicy about us or him? Does he really want to be with me but is being held back for some unknown reason?

He won’t be here for my birthday, which will be of no surprise to me as he never comes to me even though he knows how hard I fight to make it through each day. I am beginning to think I should have cut my losses and ran a long time ago.