We are forever searching for love and our soulmates, but so many do not understand what a real soulmate is. A true soulmate is your other half, yes they do complete you but people view completeness as love, happiness and contentment. A soulmate doesn’t give us all the good things we seek, actually a soulmate brings with the challenges and test that all of us must experience within a true soulmate relationship. We seek completeness, we seek another to complete us which is wrong as a soulmate does so much more.
A true soulmate will challenge your thoughts and beliefs as they make you question things that you are steadfast in believing. A soulmate not only opens doors but they open windows of our souls as well. We close ourselves off to things we do not wish to experience or to believe. Our soulmates bring tests into our lives as well as love and a soulmate teaches us lessons that are not always desirable. We are not limited to just one soulmate as soulmates come to us in different walks of life.
We can have soulmates in business as these people teach us how to protect ourselves financially and how to grow our wealth, this person never steers us wrong and always has our best interest at heart. Then we have our soulmate of love, this person understands us, they bring to the table all that we truly need and desire. This person loves us and they will not blow smoke up our asses as they are the realist that pulls no punches in our lives.
People equate love and soulmates as one which is not true because if it were there would be no divorce. Soulmates do not enter and exit our lives at will, they leave us do to death, the physical demise that all of eventually succumb to. There are people who fight the pull of their soulmate, they try to understand why they are so drawn to this person yet they fear the connection as if it would swallow them in their entirety. When you have an undeniable attraction to someone regardless what their standing in life is, their physical appearance or beliefs then you have met your soulmate.
You can meet yourself soulmate anywhere at anytime and yes you can meet them in an elevator, hallway, football game, online, just about anywhere. When you have a connection that pulls at your heart as well as your head then you belong with that person and you can deny it all you want but it will come to pass and you cannot stop it. All of us have free choice and if you choose not to be with your soulmate then that choice is yours but that person will never leave your mind, heart or life.
You have to be ready to meet your soulmate, you have to throw caution to the wind and take a step forward to be with that person. It takes two people to be together but it only takes one to keep the union from happening. You can stand in denial and your soulmate may be with another but when the time is right for both individuals the meeting will occur as it is written in the stars. Soulmates are meant to be together and will but in the mean time one may be with another person because they need to fill a void in their lives until their soulmate opens their heart up enough to let them in.