Cyril asked me what I was doing today and I told him cleaning and going to mass, he asked if he could join me which surprised me because no one has ever asked me to attend mass with me. I invited him and then we went out to breakfast and had a really nice time. He is such a nice man and he understands how hard it has been for me to lose everyone and losing Bob and my dad so close together has been very hard on me and he understands.
It’s hard to find people who understand grief and how it affects us on a daily basis, Cyril is educated in that field and he has a lot of education behind him which I find sexy. I love an intelligent, educated person and I have a hard time finding men like that as living in the car factory area of Michigan leaves me with slim pickens. Cyril has gone to run some errands and he will be back later and we are going to do something but I do not know what yet.
Cyril was impressed with the knowledge I have of Nigeria I really know very little but he seemed surprised that I would know little things like they shake hands with their left hand because most wipe their ass with their right, lol. I find this to be so funny because what if the person wipes with the other hand? lmao I don’t get some customs but hey it’s their country and their customs and it’s for me to accept it the way it is.
It’s going to an interesting flight to Nigeria with Cyril and he has been asking a lot of questions how I know my friends in Nigeria and how I met them. I just kind of blow him off and gloss over our meeting because it’s none of his business really. He says he is concerned for my safety because I have never met my friends before but I tried to tell him Frankie will keep me safe but he is still concerned and wants to meet Frankie. Like that is going to happen, not I am a big girl thank you very much.
Cyril seems to be showing too much protection for me and it is beginning to bother me, I do not need a babysitter and I feel like he thinks I am going to get hurt or used, which is not going to happen. I am not fearful and I am safe no matter where I go or what I do. Frankie would never lead me into dangerous areas and he will watch over me just fine and I will be fine. Who knows maybe I will hike through a bunch of countries or take a train, who know?