Traits

We are attracted to people by their personality traits and our one on one relationships are based that way as well. I could be with the most gorgeous, well built man but if he doesn’t have the traits I am looking for then there will be no relationship. The type of man I look for is one that intelligent, funny, caring, will listen to me, willing to help me when I need it but let’s me help myself first.
I look for a man who will actually listen to me and give me good advice, someone who will hold me when I cry and kick me in the ass when I need it. You may say to yourself “she shouldn’t have a problem finding a man like that” but the truth is it isn’t that easy, not at all. I need a man who has charisma, drive, ambition but he will always be himself and share with me his troubles and problems as well.
I have been dating someone who I really like but that is all, I like him and I know we will never be more than we are because he doesn’t have that electricity I need to feel to be with someone on a deeper level. We haven’t had sex because I am not attracted to him enough to engage in sexual pleasures with him. We had a long talk last night and came to the conclusion that we are better off friends so we have parted as friends.
I so want to meet the man who has that electricity I need, the charisma and the laughter. I need someone who is fun and will be silly with me because when someone can let themselves go that is when you see the real person. So many try to impress but do not show themselves and that is such a turn off to me and most men want to get laid asap they do not care about you just getting in your pants.
I know one day I will meet the perfect person for me but until then I will continue to dream, hope and pray for that special one even if I look like a fool. I will never give up my hopes and dreams and I will never shut down when I meet someone who makes me smile. I am finally ready for a relationship that will be healthy and happy but it has taken a long time to drop all the baggage that has held me back.

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